HOLY EROTICA

FELLOWSHIP OF SEX AND SPIRIT

  • In this context, aCHURCH is not a building or an institution or a non-profit entity in the eyes of the IRS. It is a body of people united in belief and mission; a gathering who view WORSHIP as a part of life or as a way of living.

Participants in the COHE begin with an ORIENTATION VIDEO explaining the community's beliefs, brinciples, and agreements, and the concept of the Erotic Christ.

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the erotic christ

FOR ALL PARTICIPANTS OF THE CHURCH OF HOLY EROTICA

THEMES: Consent, Authentic Self

  • This lecture is an abbreviated teaching of my Lilith Trilogy 3-Part Lecture Series, a presentation of an essential teaching distinction—the Erotic Christ— instilling a common purpose, an ethos, and mission for eroticism.

    BELIEFS

    • 1st Belief of Holy Erotica:Sexuality and spirituality are synonym

    • 2nd Belief of Holy Erotica:When sex and spirit are synonym, both expand.

    • 3rd Belief of Holy Erotica: When sex and spirt expand, love expands.

    PRINICPLES

    • 1st Principle: You are the one you are looking for.

    • 2nd Principle: Expansion happens on the edges.

    • 3rd Principle:What is impossible is possible.

    AGREEMENTS

    • 1st Agreement:Yes means yes and no means no. “I don’t know” and “maybe” is discouraged.

    • 2nd Agreement:What happens here stays here.

    • 3rd Agreement:Everyone is divine and treated with dignity.

NAVIGATE DOWN FOR:

  • Community: A Summary

  • What is a Love Economy?

    • Christ Consciousness

    • Feminine Eroticism as Our Eroticism

    • Authentic Self

  • COHE Spiritualism: Western + Nonwestern

  • Community Beliefs/Principles/Agreements

  • Church of Holy Erotica / Temple-Tabernacle Tiers

    • Tier 1: Outer Court (Public/Donation)

    • Tier 2: Holy Space (Membership)

    • Tier 3: Holy of Holies (Premium)

    • The Gallery (All Tiers)

WHAT IS A LOVE ECONOMY?

A "love economy" is a system where love, compassion, and positive social interactions drive exchange, prioritizing community well-being, ethics, and sustainability over traditional profit and competition.

YOUR MONEY | your promise

It’s said that money can’t buy love, and love shouldn’t depend on money. But both are forms of currency.

Holy Erotica emerged from my desire to heal, connect, and experience my eroticism in a safe, sacred way. Money didn’t factor in. Integrity does. Your honesty—and everyone’s honesty—is what makes the COHE a true Holy Ground.

HYPOTHESIS: Can the currency of money be aligned with the essence of love?

Your payment is a promise: a commitment to be your Authentic Self in this space. Too often, we lie to protect those we love or enter unsafe spaces, paying a high price. That’s why—

—HOLY EROTICA IS NEEDED.

It exists to protect you and those you love. It’s a revolving door—come, go, return—until you’re ready to embody your true self, your Christ-Self, to be a truth barometer for a post-truth, post-evangelism world.

Yes, I believe money can align with love. The COHE is a love economy, a space for the expression—not exploitation—of eroticism, reclaiming its holiness for a freer world

COHE SPIRITUALISM | WESTERN + NON-WESTERN

western + non-western spiritual-sexuality

The deconstruction-reconstruction of my beliefs to behold FEMININE EROTICISM with my camera became the beliefs and principles of the COHE, an integration of WESTERN + NON-WESTERN fundamentals.

3 BELIEFS

  1. Sexuality and Spirituality are SYNONYM. 

  2. When Sex and Spirit are synonym, both EXPAND. 

  3. When Sex and Spirit expand, LOVE EXPANDS.

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3 PRINCIPLES

  1. YOU are the one you are looking for.

  2. EXPANSION happens on the EDGES.

  3. What is impossible IS POSSIBLE.

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3 AGREEMENTS

  1. Yes means yes, no means no. If you don’t know, NO.

  2. What happens here, STAYS HERE.

  3. EVERYONE IS DIVINE and treated with dignity.

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THE TIERS OF THE COHE |

What to expect in The Mighty Network Church of Holy Erotica 3-Tier Community:

The Church of Holy Erotica Mighty Network is structured like a temple/tabernacle, created to hold the Ark of the Covenant—where God dwelled according to the Hebrew Bible. The three parts of the tabernacle symbolize an initiatory path through body, heart, and spirit to behold God.

Similarly, the COHE is divided into these three parts to reconnect reverence and initiation with sexuality. By equating sex and God—both creators and destroyers—a higher ethic rooted in religion finds its fullest expression in sexuality.

THE TABERNACLE

  • The Outer Court of the Tabernacle is the most accessible part of the structure. It symbolized the human BODY as an entry way to God. It is considered holy ground, a space for commoners to worship, dance, praise, sacrifice offerings and have purification ceremonies.

  • The interior of the Tabernacle is divided into two spaces. The first room represents the HEART.

    The first room, the Holy Space, is only for priests. The three items kept here were symbolic of what is required in one’s HEART to be in God’s presence (Ark of the Covenant). Otherwise, they would die instantly:

    • Golden Lampstand: 7 oil lamps representing the Heart of Christ (masculine) and Holy Spirit (feminine). The gold stand represents pure intention.

    • Table of Shewbread: The “bread of presence” and frankincense was prepared with instruction. Together they symbolize the Presence of God and the act of worship offered to Him.

    • Altar of Incense: An altar where incense was burned as a fragrant offering to God representing prayer.

  • The Inside of the insides is the SPIRIT of God, the Inner Sanctum, where the Ark of the Covenant is kept, the Presence of God.

    The Holy of Holies is a term in the Hebrew Bible that refers to the inner sanctuary of the Tabernacle, where the Shekhinah (God's Presence in the form of a glowing cloud, representing an intimate connection, above the cherubs of the Ark) appeared. Only after a priest modeled his devotion, and only on the holiest day of the year in Judaism, Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement and Repentance, could he behold God’s Presence without dying. This Day of Atonement and Repentance represents a SPIRIT of humility.

CHURCH OF HOLY EROTICA

  • The Outer Court of the COHE is the most public part of the community. It symbolizes the human BODY as Temple, considered holy ground, a space for “Pilgrims” to INSPIRE, ASPIRE, and CELEBRATE feminine eroticism as metaphor for our eroticism in each of us, the Image of God.

  • The Holy Space of the COHE is only for “Priestesses” and “Priests”. This space requires the following traits of the HEART to behold the divine nature of our eroticism “without getting burned”:

    • The Heart of Christ (Love and Mercy) and Heart of Sophia (Wisdom and Intelligence).

    • Pure Intention.

    • Reverence for God in Yourself and in the Other(s).

    • Treat the engagement as act of prayer, a request for help or expression of thanks.

    This space is divided into two, the first devoted to Priestesses and the second, Priests.

    • Priestess Eroticism: Men pay more first to symbolize an initial step of creating a space of safety and trust for Women. It is a Promise, made to oneself and the other, to be a protective space-holder and present Witness. Women pay less as a consensual step of accepting this Invitation.

    • Priest Eroticism: Women pay more next to symbolize their initial step of creating a space of safety and trust for Men. It is a Promise, made to oneself and the other, to be a protective space-holder and present Witness. Men pay less as a consensual step of accepting this Invitation.

  • The Holy of Holies of the COHE is the inner sanctuary of erotic engagement. This room represents the SPIRIT of transcended androgyny INSIDE OURSELVES versus the exterior of our masculine or feminine bodies left at the Outer Court.

    Erotic connection we have with ourselves and with others is the Shekhinah (God's Presence) and worthy of a sacred container. In this tier, traditional masculine and feminine identities blur. In it’s place are roles of dominance and submission where an inter-play of authority is passed between genders in service and humility. This tier includes:

    • Workshops

    • Exhibition Rooms

    • Thematic Play Rooms

    • Galleries

  • A designated physical or metaphorical area that is considered sacred and dedicated to the practice of sexual union as a spiritual ritual, often involving deep connection, ritualistic elements, and a sense of reverence for the act itself, similar to the idea of a traditional temple being a sacred space for religious worship.