HOLY EROTICA

FELLOWSHIP OF SEX AND SPIRIT

  • In this context, aCHURCH is not a building or an institution or a non-profit entity in the eyes of the IRS. It is a body of people united in belief and mission; a gathering who view WORSHIP as a part of life or as a way of living.

COMMUNITY |

THE CHURCH OF HOLY EROTICA

The Church of Holy Erotica (COHE) is an online Mighty Network community offering screenings, discussion rooms, and a safe space to explore your erotic self. Guided by core beliefs and principles inspired by my films, the COHE supports your journey toward your Authentic Self.

Below is an overview of the community's vision, structure, and subscription tiers. Hosted on Mighty Networks, joining is easy—just create a profile and search for “The Church of Holy Erotica.” See you inside!

Holy Erotica artifacts are a deeper, more intimate, and profoundly respectful exploration of eroticism deserving their own dedicated COMMUNITY guided by core beliefs, principles, and agreements, enabling them to engage with others as a continuous practice to discern their authentic selves from the conditionings of cultural shame, religious shame, and trauma.

NAVIGATE DOWN FOR:

  • Community: A Summary

  • What is a Love Economy?

    • Christ Consciousness

    • Feminine Eroticism as Our Eroticism

    • Authentic Self

  • COHE Spiritualism: Western + Nonwestern

  • Community Beliefs/Principles/Agreements

  • Church of Holy Erotica / Temple-Tabernacle Tiers

    • Tier 1: Outer Court (Public/Donation)

    • Tier 2: Holy Space (Membership)

    • Tier 3: Holy of Holies (Premium)

    • The Gallery (All Tiers)

COMMUNITY | A SUMMARY

TO EMBODY EROTICISM, WE NEED SAFETY. In a culture split between repression and indulgence, we lack spaces to explore it healthily—especially outside relationships. This is why we need a community: a container to cultivate and honor eroticism in preparation for deeper connections.

This container offers a safe, non-sexual space to explore online before embodying it fully. It’s built on commitment, intention, and privacy, with flexible financial support to ensure inclusivity.

We’re starting small—with lectures, film screenings, and self-focused content like selfies and self-pleasure—so participants can safely explore and grow at their own pace.

We also embrace a COMMON TEACHING, a sexual narrative that reconnects us with the authentic self through the body. In a post-truth world, our relationship with our body will be the only trustworthy anchor.

Participants in the COHE begin with an ORIENTATION VIDEO explaining the community's beliefs, brinciples, and agreements, and the concept of the Erotic Christ.

lecture | orientation

the erotic christ

FOR ALL PARTICIPANTS OF THE CHURCH OF HOLY EROTICA

THEMES: Consent, Authentic Self

  • This lecture is an abbreviated teaching of my Lilith Trilogy 3-Part Lecture Series, a presentation of an essential teaching distinction—the Erotic Christ— instilling a common purpose, an ethos, and mission for eroticism.

    BELIEFS

    • 1st Belief of Holy Erotica:Sexuality and spirituality are synonym

    • 2nd Belief of Holy Erotica:When sex and spirit are synonym, both expand.

    • 3rd Belief of Holy Erotica: When sex and spirt expand, love expands.

    PRINICPLES

    • 1st Principle: You are the one you are looking for.

    • 2nd Principle: Expansion happens on the edges.

    • 3rd Principle:What is impossible is possible.

    AGREEMENTS

    • 1st Agreement:Yes means yes and no means no. “I don’t know” and “maybe” is discouraged.

    • 2nd Agreement:What happens here stays here.

    • 3rd Agreement:Everyone is divine and treated with dignity.

COHE SPIRITUALISM | WESTERN + NON-WESTERN

western + non-western spiritual-sexuality

The deconstruction-reconstruction of my beliefs to behold FEMININE EROTICISM with my camera became the beliefs and principles of the COHE, an integration of WESTERN + NON-WESTERN fundamentals.

3 BELIEFS

  1. Sexuality and Spirituality are SYNONYM. 

  2. When Sex and Spirit are synonym, both EXPAND. 

  3. When Sex and Spirit expand, LOVE EXPANDS.

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3 PRINCIPLES

  1. YOU are the one you are looking for.

  2. EXPANSION happens on the EDGES.

  3. What is impossible IS POSSIBLE.

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3 AGREEMENTS

  1. Yes means yes, no means no. If you don’t know, NO.

  2. What happens here, STAYS HERE.

  3. EVERYONE IS DIVINE and treated with dignity.

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WELCOME TO

THE CHURCH OF HOLY EROTICA

THE TIERS OF THE COHE |

What to expect in The Mighty Network Church of Holy Erotica 3-Tier Community:

The Church of Holy Erotica Mighty Network is structured like a temple/tabernacle, created to hold the Ark of the Covenant—where God dwelled according to the Hebrew Bible. The three parts of the tabernacle symbolize an initiatory path through body, heart, and spirit to behold God.

Similarly, the COHE is divided into these three parts to reconnect reverence and initiation with sexuality. By equating sex and God—both creators and destroyers—a higher ethic rooted in religion finds its fullest expression in sexuality.

THE TABERNACLE

  • The Outer Court of the Tabernacle is the most accessible part of the structure. It symbolized the human BODY as an entry way to God. It is considered holy ground, a space for commoners to worship, dance, praise, sacrifice offerings and have purification ceremonies.

  • The interior of the Tabernacle is divided into two spaces. The first room represents the HEART.

    The first room, the Holy Space, is only for priests. The three items kept here were symbolic of what is required in one’s HEART to be in God’s presence (Ark of the Covenant). Otherwise, they would die instantly:

    • Golden Lampstand: 7 oil lamps representing the Heart of Christ (masculine) and Holy Spirit (feminine). The gold stand represents pure intention.

    • Table of Shewbread: The “bread of presence” and frankincense was prepared with instruction. Together they symbolize the Presence of God and the act of worship offered to Him.

    • Altar of Incense: An altar where incense was burned as a fragrant offering to God representing prayer.

  • The Inside of the insides is the SPIRIT of God, the Inner Sanctum, where the Ark of the Covenant is kept, the Presence of God.

    The Holy of Holies is a term in the Hebrew Bible that refers to the inner sanctuary of the Tabernacle, where the Shekhinah (God's Presence in the form of a glowing cloud, representing an intimate connection, above the cherubs of the Ark) appeared. Only after a priest modeled his devotion, and only on the holiest day of the year in Judaism, Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement and Repentance, could he behold God’s Presence without dying. This Day of Atonement and Repentance represents a SPIRIT of humility.

CHURCH OF HOLY EROTICA

  • The Outer Court of the COHE is the most public part of the community. It symbolizes the human BODY as Temple, considered holy ground, a space for “Pilgrims” to INSPIRE, ASPIRE, and CELEBRATE feminine eroticism as metaphor for our eroticism in each of us, the Image of God.

  • The Holy Space of the COHE is only for “Priestesses” and “Priests”. This space requires the following traits of the HEART to behold the divine nature of our eroticism “without getting burned”:

    • The Heart of Christ (Love and Mercy) and Heart of Sophia (Wisdom and Intelligence).

    • Pure Intention.

    • Reverence for God in Yourself and in the Other(s).

    • Treat the engagement as act of prayer, a request for help or expression of thanks.

    This space is divided into two, the first devoted to Priestesses and the second, Priests.

    • Priestess Eroticism: Men pay more first to symbolize an initial step of creating a space of safety and trust for Women. It is a Promise, made to oneself and the other, to be a protective space-holder and present Witness. Women pay less as a consensual step of accepting this Invitation.

    • Priest Eroticism: Women pay more next to symbolize their initial step of creating a space of safety and trust for Men. It is a Promise, made to oneself and the other, to be a protective space-holder and present Witness. Men pay less as a consensual step of accepting this Invitation.

  • The Holy of Holies of the COHE is the inner sanctuary of erotic engagement. This room represents the SPIRIT of transcended androgyny INSIDE OURSELVES versus the exterior of our masculine or feminine bodies left at the Outer Court.

    Erotic connection we have with ourselves and with others is the Shekhinah (God's Presence) and worthy of a sacred container. In this tier, traditional masculine and feminine identities blur. In it’s place are roles of dominance and submission where an inter-play of authority is passed between genders in service and humility. This tier includes:

    • Workshops

    • Exhibition Rooms

    • Thematic Play Rooms

    • Galleries

  • A designated physical or metaphorical area that is considered sacred and dedicated to the practice of sexual union as a spiritual ritual, often involving deep connection, ritualistic elements, and a sense of reverence for the act itself, similar to the idea of a traditional temple being a sacred space for religious worship.

THE COHE | SUBSCRIPTION TIERS

TIER 1 | THE OUTER COURT

WORSHIP

“Step into the sacred beginning — a space where FEMININE EROTICISM is celebrated as the origin of Life, inviting you to WITNESS and honor its divine beauty.”

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COMMON SPACE | DONATIONS

Pilgrims seeking a safe space for the worship and celebration of holy eroticism can gather in The Outer Court of the COHE on scheduled times. This public space is sacred ground, a common area held by mutual beliefs, principles, and agreements:

The 1st Belief creates community: Sex and spirit are synonymous.
The 1st Principle diffuses expectations: You are the answer you seek.
The 1st Agreement encourages clarity: Your ‘yes’ means yes, your ‘no’ means no.

A tone of erotic expression is set by an ORIENTATION VIDEO and regular original content—videos, podcasts, and talks. To maintain a safe environment, Angels (professional therapists, counselors, and somatic workers) blend in as fellow travelers revealing their expertise only when the moment feels right.

The Outer Court is for personal expression, not romantic or sexual pursuit. A shared responsibility ensures a rotating, gender-balanced spotlight. If you are safe and respectable and heart-led, you will receive a personal invite into the next tier of the COHE.

    • Listen without interruption

    • Celebrate without judgment or comparison

    • Approach all expression (dance, poetry, song) with respect and intention

    • No nudity

    • No arousal—this is expression, not exposure

This sacred space is for exploring erotic expression as spiritual connection. While open to all, we suggest a DONATION (with a "pay what you can" option) to help sustain the creation of talks, content, and community offerings.

  • $10/month – Keeps the common-space thriving.

  • $25/month – Supports new content.

  • $50/month – Supports the COHE’s expansion.

TIER 2 | THE HOLY SPACE

reciprocity

“Balance the sacred energies by holding space for masculine eroticism, embracing harmony and reciprocity.”

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PRIESTHOOD | MEMBERSHIP

Invited Pilgrims deepen their commitment to their Authentic Self by entering the COHE’s Holy Space by invitation, a sacred space for Priestesses and Priests. The same Outer Court rules apply here with one addition: Nudity is allowed.

The 2nd Belief is common conviction: If sex and spirit are synonymous, both expand.
The 2nd Principle is common direction: Expansion happens at our edges.
The 2nd Agreement cultivates trust: What happens here stays here.

To maintain the sanctity of the space, participants agree to channel energy outward through creative and spiritual expression. Arousal is welcomed as part of the expression, but should not lead to self-stimulation for both embodier and witness. Personal invitations are required for the next tier.

    • No masturbation.

    • Personal arousal is for self-reflection, releasing shame, and unlocking creativity—keep it contained in your body.

    • For support, use the Discussion Spaces.

    • Keep personal arousal private.

    • No self-stimulation.

Deepen your journey by honoring eroticism with reciprocity as an embodier or witness. Different MEMBERSHIP FEES ensure commitment to Feminine Eroticism first, as a sacred initiation—not voyeurism. This balance continues as embodiers and witnesses exchange roles, holding space for Masculine Eroticism as part of the initiation process, not an obligation.

1st Room (Entry-Initiation): FEMININE EROTICISM

Witnesses: $40/month

Embodyers: $25/month

2nd Room (Cont’d-Initiation): MASCULINE EROTICISM

Witnesses: +$15/month

Embodyers: +$30/month

tier 3 | THE HOLY OF HOLIES

DIGNITY

“Having walked the sacred path, you are invited to the ultimate experience — Love as medicine, a divine union of body, spirit, and soul.”

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DIVINITY | PREMIUM

When Priestesses and Priests accept invitations to experience the divine within themselves or another, they enter The Holy of Holies, detaching from their physical selves left at the Outer Court, becoming the Presence of God, where arousal becomes medicine, an expression of Love.

This space holds arousal and nudity as love and medicine—a practice for healing, prayer, and transformation—if it serves the highest intention, in humility before the divine in all of us.

The 3rd Belief gives permission: If sex and spirit expand, love expands.
The 3rd Principle inspires: What seems impossible is possible.
The 3rd Agreement invites reverence: All are divine and treated with dignity.

Consent is essential for all participants, with the freedom to stop at any time, no reason too small.

    • Masturbation requires consent.

    • Orientation and aftercare are required.

    • Climax requires consent.

    • Orientation and aftercare are required.

Those who complete both initiation rooms of The Holy Space are peronally invited to The Holy of Holies, where arousal becomes medicine, an expression of Love. Entry is invitation only, in pairs or groups (of any gender), reflecting the sacred balance of partnership. All participants share equal value, embodying the principle of Oneness and shared responsibility.

  • $300/month – Holy of Holies (2–3 participants)

  • $600/month – Holy of Holies (4 or more participants)

WORSHIP + RECIPROCITY + DIGNITY

FILM STUDIES | COMMUNITY ARTIFACTS

THE GALLERY |

The Gallery is designed to hold exclusive artifacts with the same sanctity as a holy temple. It is a space of reverence — an inner sanctuary, where the content is experienced as sacred, inviting embodiment and feeling in contrast to the disembodiment and numbness evoked by traditional content.

Explore exclusive sections of The Gallery, thoughtfully curated for all three tiers of the Church of Holy Erotica Community.